Dear You.

Have a friend that has something valuable to give.

Be a friend that has something valuable to give.

That’s how life works best.

Two poor people can help each other. It just depends on the “Poor People”.

You are not poor because you dont have money. You are poor because you dont have value. If money is the only good thing you lack this moment. Then its a momentarily issue. If you have core values, I bet it’s only a matter of time and the money will come.

But these words “friend” and “friendship”. Should be more deliberately used. How am I your friend when I mean nothing and cant give anything to you.

Time is a solid resource.

Money is a solid resource.

And lately I discovered one more great resource that I will love to share with you.

The resource called “Quality Discourse”.

When you and your friends gather.

What do you talk about?

It’s very okay to talk Football, Yansh, Boobs, Men and Gbola. But if that’s all you and your pals talk about. Then you are not having a Quality Circle.

The quality circle to envy is that quality gang talking solid business opportunities, strategies, networking, finance, relationship, spiritual growth, emotional uplift and other quality discussions.

A circle where everyone is about growth in the important areas of this adult life.

Remember this letter is not to kids. I am talking to adults here.

Dont call me only for parties. Call me for opportunities as well. Dont call me only for bumbum and gbola talk. Call me for pickups and ideation reasoning too. Ask me about my financial growth. Push me values. Give me business ideas. Share my proposals. Connect me to your business circles. Show me where I need to improve. Praise me deliberately.

I took a potential business man to my friend’s place one day. My friend’s name is EseOghene M. Edafe . He only knew I was coming while we were on the way to his place. No prior plan. No prior arrangements. Just wanted this business man to see that there was a good studio in his area.

And when we got there. The conversations between myself and Edafe was all this business man needed to invest in another business I was discussing with him before. The way Edafe talked about me in his presence was enough for him to make his decisions. Immediately we left there, I got a strange alert. And I wondered why it was that day he decided to transfer the money.

Now that’s what quality friendship is about. That’s whatbI mean by quality circle. I didnt have to give Edafe a script. I didnt have to preplan anything with Edafe. Because we are naturally progressive minded individuals.

So you see why I can use the word “friend” on a man like Edafe.

But I am blessed with quality friends. Folayemi Folagbade will call me to discuss industry-take-over matters. We can talk football and relationship counsels, but Abdulwahab Umoru was the one that expressly told me the right way to host The Sabistation Business Owners Awards.

Then I have old friends like Agbona William and co to rely on. Maybe I shouldn’t have started this list because I am blessed with a quality circle. I cant mention everyone.

Your QC Spotter

Ediale

#ForTheCulture

PS: Show me your friend and I will…