Dear Young Girls,

See this picture?

Her name is Simi and she has been my crush for some time now. Only Jesus can save me from this one. But she’s not the reason I am writing you.

I am inking young girls because I feel they need some guide. Lately, guys have been quite some mess. And I hear terrible stories that pricks my heart.

The other day, an idiot set a girl ablaze. Somewhere, around the globe, as I write, one idiot is trying to rape or take advantage of a young girl.

Crazy.

Young girls are continually abused, especially in this part of the world because of their vulnerability and the fact that the culture also needs some fixing.

So girls I wanna talk to you. I want to expose some tricks guys use as well.

First thing I want you girls to understand is sex means different things to guys. It’s not mostly what they make it seem. And there’s nothing like Blue Balls. A guy gets an erection and tries to make it your fault.

They do this a lot. To blackmail you or make you feel guilty they tell you that they will end up having pains all day in their penis region because they got erection that didn’t end up in Sex.

Lies! Lies!! Lies!!!

They just want to have sex with you. Run away. Unless you are interested.

That is also another issue.

Most girls really have self control. At least more than guys. Most girls got disvirgened not because they really wanted to. They did because the community around them pressured them into.

Like it is a taboo to be a virgin!

Whereas, it is a thing of pride.

Forget what guys say with the side of their mouths. They all would really appreciate that the woman they end up with as husband and wife is a virgin.

Being a virgin is not a curse. It is a thing of glory.

And it even saves you from a lot of mess!

The story of Kelly comes to mind. She was a first class material. But in her 3rd year she met a boy. One thing led to another. She got infected with a sexual disease and that broke her beyond repair.

She was never herself again.

No matter what guys tell you. Think about yourself first. Guys have over the time formed some basic preconceptions about girls. And they use these ill-knowledge against girls:

— they believe girls have ‘fish’ bains !

And this is untrue. Girls are only too kind hearted. It’s their nature, but guys take advantage of this. They know if they can twist the facts and reasons on you, you will oblige them that sex. So their mouth is their first weapon. They lie a lot. A guy can cry, shedding tears, but laughing at your foolishness in his hearts. Thats why girls are confused when they break the “I am pregnant” news to guys. They see a totally diff demon replace the angels they thought they know.

— they believe girls are unfaithful !

Because most people think their inabilities on others. Guys who themselves are mostly unfaithful always believe girls they lay are unfaithful. I kid you not. Most guys are idiots. They reason that since you are giving it to them. You must be giving it to others too. And believe me, this is beyond you. You can’t help flush this out of his mentality. No matter what you do.

— they believe girls have more to lose !

And somehow, this is true. Blame it on the culture or biology. But it is you that will end up being a prego. It is you that will carry the baby in shame for 9 months. It is you that will face the risk or danger of abortion if you choose to go the way. I am sorry darling. But the society is a mess on this one. You could even be the only one suffering when this happen. Remember the Babcock situation? The girl was the one that took the heat more.

There…

Be intentional. Be wise. Be you. Don’t allow idiots see your panties. Don’t allow a guy invest sexual disease on you. You have no business being friends with idiots. They will put you in trouble.

I am talking to young girls. Really young lads here, not those mamas. I am talking because parents wont even talk. How they want the girl child to figure things out by herself does baffle me.

I intend to keep this up. Next I want to teach you how to spot a bad boy. Boys you shouldn’t give a chance!

Your Girl spotter
Ediale,

ForTheCulture

PS: Simi got a lot of bashings from her fans for this pose though. See as she be like Up Nepa!!!